it’s especially important to practice this with KIDS. Kids need to know it’s ok to say no to giving auntie a hug and kiss. it’s ok to say no to getting up on stage at a children’s show or activity. it’s ok to say no. please teach your children this!
Friends who trivialize your mental illness are not friends
Friends who don’t attempt to understand your mental illness are not friends
Friends who shame you for your mental illness are not friends
i already shame and trivialize it myself. i really need folks around me to be supportive because if you tell me it is not real, or i am just being too lazy, or dramatic, i will believe you.
lakin ogunbanwo (Nigerian based/born photographer)
*gorgeous. rivalling viviane sassen…
see an interview with him via My Africa Is: The Lagos Chronicles
you casually admit that you sexually assaulted your partner like it never happened. youre a hypocrite. you should post your picture and shame yourself the way you shame others who are just ACCUSED of doing the same thing. you dont even take responsiblity for your behavior but instead blame your…
I have a lot of new followers who might not have seen this. If you have any questions or want to talk about this let me know. Please do what you need to feel safe.
I got a few messages about this today, so posting it again for anyone who hasn’t seen it.
If you have any questions or want to talk about this, let me know.
How to break out of a zip-tie- potentially life-saving information
You guys, please share it. You never know when someone is going to need this information.
PLEASE reblog this— zipties are one of the most common ways of binding a person upon kidnapping because they are cheap and hard to break.
Knowing things like this puts you one step closer to freedom if, heaven forbid, you fall into a situation where you need to use this information.
I want my makeup to communicate to you that you are never to speak to me unless I give you permission
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